Wednesday, January 2, 2008
It's been a while...
It is new years and I'm not much for resolutions but I do think there's some value in documenting what I expect for the year. I've also been reflecting on the past year, and thinking about how things can be better this year.
1. City of Tacoma half marathon - June 10th
2. I need to stop caring so much about how others live their lives - some people are just selfish, or mean, or generally dumb. They always will be and I can choose to live with them or not.
3. I'm done being careless with other people's emotions - it's bullshit and it needs to stop.
4. I'd like to find a church I really like in Tacoma - driving to Seattle is no fun...
5. I need to do a better job of recognizing people in my life who I care about, and who mean something to me...
There's always more but now I at least feel like I can get back to work...
Monday, November 26, 2007
Movie!

I don't usually recommend movies but I saw one this weekend that was really really amazing. "Lars and the Real Girl" is a great movie - in Tacoma it's only playing at the Grand (which if you haven't been to you should go anyway)
It's about a guy who has some social problems and orders an "anatomically correct" doll as a girlfriend - it's actually way more than that - really funny, and surprisingly sad in parts, but really really good.
Go see it
Jb
Friday, November 23, 2007
4-day weekend - housework and homework...
After the wind storm a few weeks ago I realized replacing the east side of my fence in the back yard has moved up to priority number one for projects around the house. With all the fun I've had with the neighbors lately I decided to extend the fence along the side of the house all the way to the front of the house (used to just cover the back yard). This will also give me a built-in kennel for Asia which is nice.
Before any of that can happen I have to get rid of a holly tree in the front yard. I've been talking about getting rid of it for a while, I noticed recently it's been creeping into the neighbors yard and it's really just a pain to mow around.
I borrowed a chainsaw from dad and had it all cleaned up in about an hour - you can see I went for the really manly saw, a true instrument of death for any yard pest. It actually was really nice for dealing with the "tree" - someone has chopped down the holly tree a long time ago but never killed the stump so I was really dealing with a bunch of different little trees all woven together into one mess.
All this and I'm not even half way through the weekend! One project down, a million still to go...
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Finally - a door
Well the day has finally come - after several months of being incredibly busy with work/school/life I finally had some time to work on the house. Of course anyone who knows me of late knows the #1 most requested remodeling project - a door on the bathroom.
Let's all take a minute to recognize the Ikea queen size top sheet that served me so well since August. We saw a lot together - bucket parties (and their aftermath), the stomach flu, pumpkin carving.
Needless to say Leslye is lots happier - but of course it's not quite done yet. I still have to trim around the door so you can't see through on both sides - I'll get to that next weekend...
Monday, October 29, 2007
Pots...
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
New posts...
What drives you?
I was talking to LW today and we were both discussing how we are so busy, and complain about being busy, but always find something else to do in order to keep that little bit of stress in our lives... There’s work, school, spending time with LW, working on the house, hiking, family, search and rescue, church… the list goes on. Things haven’t changes but I think my priorities have a little.
I’ve always considered myself a driven person – I want to be successful, and be good at what I do, and I’m lucky to be able to have a job I really like. BUT – sitting at the airport on a Monday night after spending all last week on the road, and watching the workaholics around me try to fit one more call in before their flight, makes me really rethink my priorities. I’ve always thought I’d like to “work to live” instead of “living just to work” but have I really? Maybe it’s the veil of new love but I really don’t know if this work/school/busy all the time thing is really the best way to go… Or at least being so busy that you can’t fit in spontaneous fun…
I already work from home half time but maybe that’s not enough – I can work less than 40 hours a week if I want, but that starts to cut into the finances… I’m blessed with a flexible schedule – and a job I can do from anywhere, at any pace I select – I guess I just need to decide what I want to do.

